5.15.2012

Cock-a-doodle-do


Without officially poling need-greaters and missionaries, we have created a top ten list.  Over the years we have heard many experiences shared, now we've had our own and it seems that all such adventures have these things in common:

1.  You will be hot.
2.  You will get sick.
3.  You will miss certain foods and beverages from home and nothing will fill this void.
4.  You will hate the difference in culture at first and embrace it at the end.
5.  You will cry tears of frustration at first and tears of joy at the end.
6.  You will make new lifelong friends.
7.  You will have incredible field experiences.
8.  You will draw closer to Jehovah and your mate or friend who went with you.
9.  Your perspective on the world and Jehovah's organization will change for the better, forever.

and 10....

You WILL get gifted a live chicken.

I remember my sister telling me this happened when she need-greated in Africa.  I laughed my head off and couldn't imagine a worse gift!  But that was then.

Yesterday we went to visit an inactive sister who lives out in the country and manages a chicken farm.  She fulfilled #10.  Except that this time, we couldn't imagine a better gift!  Here's a glimpse into our afternoon yesterday:


The chicks.                                                The feed.
The fear.

Maria is laughing at our reaction like, how on earth is this a big deal?  Silly Americans.  We just go pick out a chicken, put it in the box and call it a day.  Ok we got this..


She starts to lose us though when she asks, "You want a female or a male?"  Uhhhhhhhh.................

We just want a chicken in a box.  Closed please.

             

She was quickly packed away and in the car.  Field trip time little hen...

She was dropped off at a local chicken shop
And moved from a box to a bag

She now has a place in our fridge and very soon.... in our tummies :)  Thanks Maria!!  

5.14.2012

Meet Carlos. Meet Simone.

The longer we've been here, the better our Portuguese and understanding of the the culture has gotten.  With each day that passes we've been able to meet more of the locals and of course cover more territory.  These factors have led to a richer ministry than at the start and we're happy to announce that between the two of us we are currently conducting eleven studies weekly.  It's a blessing to have met our students and a sadness to to think about saying goodbye in a few weeks.  But before we do that, we want you to meet all of them too!  Let's start with Carlos and Simone...

Carlos is in his 50s and was left to Ben when our elder left, his former study conductor.  His brother is one of Jehovah's Witnesses in Bahia (a state about 5 hrs south of here) but no one in his immediate family supports him.  Carlos' wife and two grown sons all belong to Evangelical churches and give him a hard time.  They cling tightly to beliefs such as: God shows us his blessing by means of material riches and that we manifest we have the holy spirit by speaking in tongues and expelling demons, etc.  They also feel that God can be called "God", "Lord" "Jehovah" or "Jesus" it's all the same thing.  Every time we study with Carlos at his home, we are challenged on these points by his family members.  One of his sons has shown some interest, ascertained where we live and now regularly stops by to have conversations.  We've made some headway with him on a few points and he recently attended a meeting with his dad!  He said afterwards, "I agree with 95% of your teachings.  Many things I agree with more than at my own church."

Carlos lives deep in the rurals and doesn't have a car so getting into town for all the meetings is a challenge.  Every 14 days he leaves his village at noon and gets a bus into town.  His son mentioned above (Paulo) lives in town so he stops there for a bit then walks to the meeting.  After the meeting he spends the night at Paulo's house and on sunday gets a bus back home.  Carlos is witnessing at every opportunity and always comments at the meetings he attends.  He's well on his way to being a publisher :)

Ben and Carlos at his home

Of course no visit with Carlos is complete without some fresh coconut water from his backyard.

Three weeks ago we were working in a village not too far from Carlos'.  Ben and I knocked on a door and he did one of our standard presentations, "My name is Ben, this is my wife Meg, what's your name?"  A young woman replied, "Simone."  He continued, "Isn't it true that everyone has a name?  Have you ever met anyone without a name? (she giggles and says no) Even our pets have names!  But a question remains.  Do you think God has a name also?"  This presentation yields a WIDE variety of answers from God and Jesus to Michael, Joseph and once a woman even said Padre Cicero! - he's was a famous Catholic priest of which every Catholic around here has a statue.  On this particular day however, Simone replied, "Yes God has a name.  His name is Jehovah."

You can imagine our surprise!  It turns out just a few weeks prior, Simone moved here from Sao Paulo to live with her grandmother.  In Sao Paulo she lived with her mother who studied for several years when Simone was young and Simone would sit in on the studies!  She said that just a few days prior  she had visited the KH in Junqueiro (one of our neighboring congregations) asking for a study.  After saying where she lived, a sister there explained to her that she was in fact in Sao Sebastiao's territory and that the sister would work on arranging someone from our congregation to stop by.  A few days later we came knocking at her door.... coincidence?  We think not!  We've had two wonderful studies with her since.  

Simone and me.  And Grandma.



4.30.2012

There are no words...

And yet sometimes there are too many.


For those of you who can't quite make it out or just feel wrong staring THERE...

"Don't hate me because I'm beautiful.  Hate me because I kissed your boyfriend."

Watch out girls!

4.29.2012

I can TOTALLY believe it’s not butter!


I have what some (I hope most) of you will find to be distressing news:  Ben and I are living in a land of margarine.

Large grocery stores, small corner markets and every household fridge is stocked with the stuff.

Butter is available also.  It comes from an area about 20 miles from here called the “sertao”.  The sertao is too dry to offer much if any good fruits or veggies.  It’s better known for it’s meat, cheese, milk and butter production.  Although everyone seems to agree that butter from the sertao is better than the endless variety of margarine, no one purchases it.  The reason?  Simple: margarine is cheaper.

Another staple in every pantry: powdered milk.  We believe there are three reasons for this.  1) powdered milk is cheaper and has a longer shelf life 2) Powdered milk is easier as milk from a cow must be filtered, stripped of it’s fatty film and boiled after purchase 3) Cows are fed a mix of grass and de-spined cactus.  The milk tastes just like that mixture!

Well be that as it may, Franca and Edite love cow’s milk and purchase it every week from the corner bar – why yes, beer and milk should naturally be sold together!  So every week she filters the milk, then lets it sit over night so that the fatty film floats to the top.  The next day she skims off that film and puts it in a container in the freezer.  Her freezer is literally packed with containers of what is essentially heavy cream.  


Upon asking her what she does with all those containers, the following events took place:

The frozen "nata" was scooped into a large bowl and this gets filled with water.


        Once thoroughly melted, the mixture gets put into a large glass jar and shaken for 10 min or so.. 

             

It's ready for the next step when when all the nata has separated from the water and looks like cottage cheese.  The excess water is then poured out and the cottage cheese mixture put in a pan to be cooked..


The mixture boils and foams for about 10 minutes and then begins to clarify.  Some salt is added and  JUST before it starts to brown, its taken off the heat, run through some cheese cloth to strain out any impurities and vuala!  Homemade butter.  This is popped in the fridge and used for weeks as a spread, to fry onions or eggs and for baking.



We continue to appreciate the Brazilian's resourcefulness.  It seems they have a use for everything, often things we'd throw away.  There's a trick for every problem and a remedy for every ailment.  All you have to do ask and be willing to learn :)

4.06.2012

When the Cat's away...

The mice will work?

With our only elder out of town, I wasted no time in planting a very girlish idea in the minds of our two brothers now in charge of decisions.  What else but a:  MAKEOVER!!

Esthetically, our new hall was well...drab.  See, here in Brazil, there must be a minimum of 30 publishers for the Branch to get involved with KH construction.  When this number of publishers is met, and a piece of land is purchased, the traveling construction crew comes and builds you a lovely hall.  However in the case of this congregation here in Sao Sebastiao - and many others in the area - the minimum has not been met and therefor the responsibility of arranging a KH falls to the local brother(s) taking the lead.  Here was how it looked:


The friend's opinions were not asked/voted on as far as color or decor.  They were understandably disappointed when the "color" chosen for the outside of the hall was literally called: Concrete.  Now this color, in the states, is quite lovely on homes.  But here, as all houses are made of bricks covered in concrete, the friends felt and we AGREED that it looked unfinished and sad.  A few weeks after this picture was taken, the long awaited signs arrived.  Maybe they'd spruce it up a bit?  Wrong.  Picture two plain white squares with plain black capital lettering.  We all sighed when they were hung, walked in and concentrated on the fact that we had a place to meet at all, right?

Here are some other photos.  One will show the stark white walls in detail, one the put-you-on-edge blood red stage wall with handmade year text sign, one the yellow floor and unpainted back door and one the bathroom.  I promise the picture of the bathroom was NOT staged.  Just shot on an average meeting night:


My idea was accepted and collaborated upon and after 4 hours at the paint shop in Arapiraca, we got to work.  Here was some of the process:

Stencils for a boarder on the signs were traced, cut out and finally painted with black acrylic.

The front was painted including the metal doors.  Two coats of "masa" were applied to the stage wall.  This gives it a smooth affect, like sheetrock.  Then there was of course lots of cutting in and rolling.. A coat of paint was thrown over the brick wall in the bathroom to lighten it up a bit and finally the floor was painted.

We bought a King size sheet and two throw pillows.  Edite turned the sheet into a curtain for the bathroom and two covers for the throw pillows.  A brother in Arapirca has a glass shop and donated a piece of glass for the year text.  We only had to pay for the lettering to be put on!  Oh, oops, and the gas back to Arapiraca to his shop when Ben dropped it and broke a corner.  No worries though.  A rectangle makes a beautiful octagon if need be ;)  A small detail was painted on the literature counter to tie it in and it was repositioned to be more efficient - as in, people could now walk up to it and get literature, wow concept.  Fixtures were bought for the bathroom like a toilet paper holder (imagine!), hand towel holder and hand soap that you pump.  The previous hand soap was a bar of soap set atop a sponge used to clean the sink.  Burnt out lights were replaced, repairs were made to an already leaking roof and other small details completed.   In the end here's our NEW new hall:




No announcement was made to the friends about the makeover because the brothers decided on a Sunday and it was completed by the next meeting, a Thursday.  They had to make a quick decision as the goal was to have it ready by the Memorial.  Happily, the friends walked into the meeting that Thursday and were thrilled :)

A week later, Ben had the biggest privilege of his life.  Because Manoel sells fish and this is the Catholic Holy Week (Catholics can ONLY eat fish this week), Manoel worked everyday and all Memorial preparations including the talk, fell to Ben.  He called the Circuit Overseer to ask if there was an available elder from a nearby congregation to give the talk but the CO told him to be prepared.  Sure enough, here's Ben giving the talk:


 I had the privilege of making the bread and helping pick the wine and flowers.  We have 19 publishers and there were 54 in attendance.  One of our publishers is named Messias.  Messias got the truth in his late teens, riding his bike over two hours to the nearest congregation for his studies.  In his early 20s he started developing a terribly degenerative muscle disease, not sure the type.  He's now in his 30s.  He can't talk anymore and barely has any control of his muscles, communicating only with a thumbs up, thumbs down or very limited writing.  He lives in the country with his mother and is bound to the house.  But every month one of the brothers brings him his literature and his mother helps set him on the porch to place the magazines with those passing by.  He has a friend who comes into town once a month to pass in his impressive field service report including several placements and return visits!  Touched by his example, this year, Ben & Manoel were determined to get him to the Memorial.  They made arrangements with his mother to pick him up and he was present with us!  He was beaming and the friends were so loving with him. Many of them have not seen him in years.  Here's our dear Messias:

                 


Confident you had a wonderful Memorial as well.  Love you all.


Ben & Meg

3.31.2012

Doing Just Fine

We are happy to announce that we got our visas extended another three months and are free to stay in the country until June 28th!  We were pretty sure based off what we had researched that it wouldn't be a problem but still, we feel relieved.

After our trip into the capital for visa extension, we decided to spend the day at the beach to celebrate.

Wanted to let you all know that as it turns out, despite his added responsibilities, Benjamin is doing just fine :)